Anonyme a demandé: *hugs*
HELLO (I’m very sorry I don’t go to tumblr that much anymore but thank you for your hugs !!!!!!!!!!!)
Anonyme a demandé: yiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiff
YIF YIF TO YOU TOO *///*
man where the hell are all the resources for MAAB nonbinary people looking to try and be more femme
someone i care about is kinda trying to figure some stuff out and i realized how universally all the genderqueer and nonbinary stuff i know about is for FAAB people looking to find a more masculine presentation and focuses on chest binding and contouring and blah blah
like there’s hardly anything for femme people
could anyone point me to some help?
Women’s Clothing Terminology
Tucking How-to Guide
Realistic Breast Form Tutorial
The Breast Form Store
Mastectomy Bras with Built In Flap for Breast Forms
How to Contour and Highlight Using Makeup
How to Apply Eyeliner with a Spoon
How to Apply Foundation
How to Apply Blush
How to Apply Eyeshadow
How sexual orientation in the Trans Community breaks down.
Go ahead and try to tell me how you can fight for all gay and lesbian people and yet fight against trans folks rights.
This is one of two studies that found the division is equal, though they asked slightly different questions.
Anonyme a demandé: Hello, I don't think either being trans is a medical condition but I've had a hard time putting an accurate term on my transness so most of the time I go with medical condition for my case, bc I want to medically transition. What would be a better term for a trans condition? Because it is not medical, nor physical, nor psychological. What should I say? Thank you!
Its just who you are. Similar to being gay, or liking ponies. Dysphoria is the medical condition that is treated via transition
holy shit how the fuck can you consider yourself trans and say something like that what the fuck you don’t choose to be trans but you can choose to like ponies and being trans isn’t “who you are” it’s a medical condition what the fuck
Why do you like your favorite color? Can you make yourself like a certain color? No. Being trans is NOT a medical condition. Dysphoria is. You dont choose to like certain things. You dont choose to like traveling, you dont choose to fall in love with women, you dont choose to be who you are. That includes being trans. You dont choose to e a man or a woman or genderqueer or agender etc. you just _are_.
After transition, you are still trans. Being trans is not “treatable” because it isnt a problem. After transition, you are no longer dysphoric. Having dysphoria is treatable and it is what is the problem.
Perfect answer is perfect.
(except the part with no longer having dysphoria after transitioning, this is perfect)
it’s not even like
it’s not even about like
"i need to learn not to conflate genitals w gender so i can avoid reblogging a text post that will make ppl on tumblr mad"
it’s honestly not just like. playing this game of minesweeper where u just try not to reblog stuff that will make ppl mad at u
that’s not the point
the point is “i need to learn not to conflate genitals w gender so that i can UNLEARN violent, oppressive, harmful thought patterns about trans ppl”
and part of that is not reblogging rhetoric that supports those thought patterns
but at the end of the day it’s not about avoiding transphobic posts on a blogging website
it’s about changing the way we think about trans ppl bc we’ve been taught to think awful, horrible, invalidating, dehumanizing things about them and we have to take responsibility for that and do everything in our power to get rid of that shit so that we don’t hurt the people around us
the goal should not be to see a text post that says “penis = man” and think “i shouldn’t reblog this post bc it includes wording that ppl will call out as transphobic”
the goal should be to see a text post that says “penis = man” and think “i’m not going to reblog that because it’s incorrect”